Yellow squiggly lines begone!
Done automatically on .cpp files through `run-clang-tidy`, with manual corrections to the mistakes.
If an import is directly used, but is technically unnecessary since it's recursively imported by something else, it is *not* removed.
The tool doesn't touch .h files, so I did some of them by hand while fixing errors due to old recursive imports.
Not everything is removed, but the cleanup should be substantial enough.
Because this done on Linux, code that isn't used on it is mostly untouched.
(Hopefully no open PR is depending on these imports...)

Fix some common anti-patterns with these data structures.

- You can dereference the iterator returned by `find` to access the
  underlying value directly, without an extra `operator[]`/`at`.
- Rather than checking for an element before insertion/deletion, you can
  just do the operation and if needed check the return value to
  determine if the insertion/deletion succeeded.